Subcategory: Types
Hypnosis
Hypnosis in BDSM involves using hypnotic techniques to create altered states of consciousness, enhanced suggestibility, or specific mental experiences within consensual power exchange. A skilled hypnotist guides partners into trance states where they may experience greater sensitivity, follow suggestions, or temporarily adopt different mindsets. The process typically involves focused attention, relaxation techniques, and carefully crafted language patterns that help the subject bypass critical thinking and access more receptive mental states.
The appeal of hypnosis in BDSM lies in its unique blend of psychological control and heightened experience. For the hypnotist, there's power in guiding another's mental state and witnessing their responses to suggestion. For the subject, hypnosis can create intensified sensations (making light touches feel overwhelming or pain transmute into pleasure), freedom from inhibition, deeper immersion in role play, or the distinctive surrender of allowing another to influence their perceptions. Many enjoy the dreamlike quality of the experience and the ability to explore fantasies that might be physically impossible.
Ethical hypnosis requires clear pre-negotiation about acceptable suggestions, triggers, and post-hypnotic effects. Partners should establish boundaries around duration of effects, memory retention, and how to safely exit trance states. While most people cannot be hypnotized to violate their core values, the heightened suggestibility creates a significant responsibility for the hypnotist to respect limits and prioritize their partner's wellbeing.
This is a description of an activity in the BDSM checklist (also known as a 'kink list'). Want to discover what (more) kinks you might have? Maybe share them with a partner? Start the checklist!
About the category Taboo & Edge play
Taboo and edge play explores activities that push personal, social, or safety boundaries through consensual engagement with forbidden themes or higher-risk practices. These activities require exceptional communication, preparation, and risk awareness as they intentionally venture into territories that may challenge comfort zones or conventional safety guidelines.
People are drawn to taboo and edge play for various reasons: the intensity of breaking social norms, the adrenaline of controlled risk, the deep trust required, or the catharsis of confronting fears and boundaries. The appeal often lies in the psychological charge created when consensually approaching or crossing lines that would otherwise remain unchallenged. These practices demand thorough negotiation, extensive knowledge, and exceptional self-awareness, as they operate in spaces where the potential rewards of transformative experiences come with increased responsibility for managing both physical and psychological risks.
All activities in the checklist:
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General
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To start with
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Sex & Intimacy
- Kissing mouth (on lips)
- French kissing (with tongue)
- Kissing on body
- Massage
- Petting / Stroking Hair
- Dirty Talk
- Teasing
- Genital Stroking / Rubbing
- Fingering / Hand-jobs
- Oral Sex
- Licking (body)
- Vaginal Toys
- Vaginal Sex
- Anal Toys
- Rimming / Anal Licking
- Prostrate stimulation
- Anal Sex
- Deepthroating
- Squirting
- Breast Sex
- Tantric sex
- Phone sex
- Outdoor sex
- Sexual Body Fluids – on body
- Sexual Body Fluids – Consuming
- Double Penetration – Toys
- Double Penetration – Human
- Triple Penetration – Toys
- Fisting vaginal
- Fisting anal
- Spitting – on body
- Spitting - In mouth
- Threesome - M, M, F
- Threesome - F, F, M
- Threesome - All same gender
- Pegging
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Duration
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- Blindfolds
- Earplugs / Ear-muffs
- Masks
- Belts / Leather Straps
- Chains
- Collars
- Posture Collars
- Stocks/pillory
- Spreader Bars
- Locks
- Hoods
- Gas Masks
- Body Bags / Sleepsacks
- Vacuum Beds
- Chastity Belts / Devices
- Harnesses
- Plastic (Saran) Wrap
- Bandage / Medical Wrap
- Casts
- Single Armbinder
- Bondage Opera Gloves
- Cockrings
- Slings
- Leashes
- Straight Jackets
- Cages / Cells
- Nose Leashes
- Nose Hooks
- Tape Bondage
- Sex Machines – Handheld
- Sex Machines – Stationary
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Areas
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- Nipple Clamps – Adjustable
- Nipple Clamps – Clover
- Nipple Weights
- Canes
- Paddles
- Slappers / Straps
- Crops
- Floggers
- Single Tail Whips
- Cat-O-Nine-Tails
- Dragon Tails
- Clubs
- Violet Wands
- E-Stim Kits
- Labia Clamps
- Genital Weights
- Ball Crushers
- Scrotum Parachutes / Stretchers
- Anal Beads / Balls
- Anal Hook
- Vaginal Hook
- Animal Tail Anal Plugs
- Speculums
- Urethral Sounds
- Bells
- Strap-On Harnesses
- Feathers / Ticklers
- Claws
- Needles
- Wax
- Knives
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- Master/Mistress/slave
- Bedroom Only Control
- Day to Day Control
- 24 Hours a Day/7 Days a Week
- Total Power Exchange
- Consensual Non-Consent (CNC)
- Orders
- Chastity
- Kneeling
- Markings
- Begging
- Crawling
- Erotic Dance (Private)
- Erotic Dance (Audience)
- Journal / Blogging Duty
- Body Pose / Position Protocol
- Behavior Restriction
- Eye Contact Restriction
- Sensory deprivation
- Speech Restriction / Protocol
- Harems (serving with others)
- Serving others
- Symbolic Jewellery
- Collar and Leash
- Collar (public)
- Collar (semi-private / events)
- Collar (private)
- Poly/Mono Arrangement
- Obedience
- Honorifics
- Protocols
- Protocols (High)
- Punishment Dynamic
- Reprimands
- Discipline
- Ritual
- Rules
- Training
- Discreet Public Play (less obvious to others)
- Forced Bi-Sexuality
- Being a sex slave
- Slave Positions
- Slave Auctions
- Loaned to Others for Service
- Loaned to Others for Sex
- Being prostituted
- Tattoo/Branding as Sign of Ownership
- Micromanaging
- Micromanaging (Clothing)
- Micromanaging (Food)
- Struggling / Resistance
- Escaping Bondage
- Playing together with other subs
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- Anal Plugs (Public, Under Clothes)
- Face Sitting
- Bathroom Use Control
- Chamber-pot use
- Serving as Toilet
- Genuflecting
- Cuckold Scenes
- Public Humiliation
- Bimbofication
- Blackmail
- Cum Eating
- Emasculation
- Forced Bedwetting
- Forced Nudity
- Forced Masturbation
- Forced Orgasms
- Forced Pants Wetting
- Forced Crossdressing
- Enemas
- Burping
- Poses (Exposure, Embarrassing, etc)
- Animal Play (pet, dog, horse, etc)
- Insults
- Sexual Inadequacy Humiliation
- Removal of Privacy
- Sexual (performance) Humiliation
- Slutty Clothing (Private)
- Slutty Clothing (Public)
- Slut Training
- Small Penis Humiliation
- Verbal Humiliation (Private)
- Verbal Humiliation (Public)
- Watching Bathroom Activities
- Standing in corner
- Sleeping Conditions Chosen
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- Hair Pulling
- Spanking
- Gagging
- Face Slapping
- Biting
- Nipple Torture
- Breast torture w/pins-clips, etc.
- Breast whipping
- Pussy/cunt slapping / whipping
- Genital Torture
- Punching / Beating
- Bruising
- Scratching
- Pinching
- Breath Play
- Choking – Windpipe
- Choking – Arterial
- Smothering
- Water Torture
- Trampling
- Fire Play
- Bastinado (feet torture)
- Abrasion
- Piercing
- Knife Play (non-cutting)
- Cutting
- Electric Play
- Ice / Cold Play
- Hot Wax Play
- Tickling
- Wrestling
- Dilation – Vaginal
- Dilation – Anal
- Verbal Abuse
- Branding
- Tattooing
- Enemas
- Gagging (fingers or similar means)
- Gagging During Oral
- Cupping / Suction
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- Boss / Secretary - (Employee)
- Teacher / Student
- Damsel In Distress
- Kidnapping
- Doctor - Nurse / Patient
- Parent / Child (Ex: Daddy / Daughter)
- Interrogation
- Age Regression
- Adult Baby
- Prison Scenes
- Serving as Maid
- Prostitution / Given Away
- Initiation / Ritual
- Punishment Scenes
- Religious Scenes
- Vampire Scenes
- Rape Scenes
- Puppy Play
- Cat Play
- Pony Play
- Furries
- Cosplay
- Living Doll
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- Leather
- Latex / Rubber
- PVC
- Lingerie
- Feet
- Shoes
- Heels
- Boots
- Gloves
- Smoking
- Uniforms
- Oral Fixation
- Voyeurism
- Watching videos of others
- Corsets
- Medical
- Cross Dressing
- Forced Feminization
- Strap-On Play
- Lolita
- Mature
- Fur
- Lactation
- Food Play
- Menstruation
- Being Recorded
- Exhibitionism
- Fear / Threatening Play
- Crying / Being Brought to Tears
- Abandonment
- Acrotomophilia (amputees)
- Barosmia (smells)
- Shaving
- Shibari
- Erotic Dancing
- Body Modification
- BodyBuilding
- Bukake
- Bestiality
- Examinations (physical)
- Examinations (with instruments)
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- Age Play (Sexual)
- Animal Role Play (Sexual)
- Asphyxiation
- Ball Busting
- Bare-backing
- Blackmail Fantasy
- Blood Play
- Branding
- Breath Control
- Breeding Fantasy
- Castration Fantasy
- Catheters
- CBT (Cock & Ball Torture)
- Choking
- Conditioning (Manipulation)
- Corporal "Punishment"
- Cunt Busting
- Enemas (Cleansing)
- Enemas (Pleasure)
- Enemas (Punishment)
- Enemas (Retention)
- Fear Play
- Fire Play
- Flesh Hook Suspension
- Full Body Beatings
- Gang Bang
- Gas Masks (Air Restriction)
- Genitorture
- Gun Play
- Golden Showers
- Hypnosis
- Inflation/Injections (Saline)
- Interrogations
- Knife Play
- Mind Fucks
- Needle Play
- Ravishment Play (Rape Play)
- Ravishment Play (Group)
- Pursuit & Capture (Public)
- Pursuit & Capture (Kink Camping or Similar)
- Play Piercing
- Pussy Torture
- Resistance Play
- Rough Body Play (Closed Fists)
- Rough Body Play (Kicking)
- Scat
- Sleep Deprivation
- Stress Positions
- Take Down Play
- Tasers/Stun Guns
- Urethral Sounding
- Urine Consumption
- Waterboarding
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Recordings
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About you
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Relevant play info
- Sexual orientation
- Do you use anti-conception? If so which?
- What are your 'safer sex' barrier preferences? (condoms, gloves, etc)
- Do you have any STD's or other infectious/transferable diseases at the moment?
- Date & type of last STD test
- Any relevant medical conditions?
- Any physical or mental limitations?
- Phobias or fears:
- Diet preferences
- Favorite during session / aftercare snacks :)
- Safe Word (verbal)
- Safe Sign (non-verbal)
- Penetration ok
- No hit zone(s), if any
- Marks and bruises ok?
- No marks zone(s), if any
- BDSM-test.org result-link
- FetLife profile link
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Your body
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Words & Phrases
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Context
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