Category: D/s, Power Play
Subcategory: Body control

Clothing Chosen

Clothing Chosen involves a dominant selecting and dictating what the submissive wears, either for specific occasions or as an ongoing dynamic. This can range from choosing complete outfits to determining specific items of clothing, undergarments, or accessories that must be worn, often with specific instructions about how they should be worn.

This form of body control appeals as a visible, practical expression of dominance and submission. For submissives, having their clothing chosen represents surrendering personal choice and accepting the dominant's preferences over their own, creating a constant physical reminder of their submission. Dominants enjoy expressing their control through shaping their partner's appearance and the intimacy of influencing how their submissive presents themselves to the world or in private settings.

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About the category D/s, Power Play

Dominance and submission (D/s) and power play revolve around the consensual exchange of control between partners. This dynamic can manifest in countless ways—from bedroom-only scenarios to comprehensive lifestyle arrangements—all centered on one partner taking a controlling role while the other yields authority within negotiated boundaries.

People are drawn to power exchange for diverse reasons: the freedom found in surrender, the thrill of exercising control, the deep trust required, and the opportunity to explore aspects of themselves not expressed in everyday life. Unlike physical BDSM activities which focus on bodily sensations, D/s emphasizes psychological connection and the erotic potential of power differentials, creating experiences that many find deeply fulfilling on both emotional and sexual levels.

About the subcategory Body control

Body control encompasses activities where one partner directs or restricts the physical actions, positions, or functions of another. This can include position training, movement restrictions, controlled breathing, directed exercise, or regulation of bodily functions like eating, drinking, or bathroom use within consensual boundaries.

People enjoy body control dynamics for the deep level of surrender and authority they create. For the controlled partner, having basic physical autonomy directed by another can create profound submission and mindfulness. For the controlling partner, the responsibility and power to guide another's physical experience offers intense dominance. Many find that externally imposed physical discipline creates a unique mental space where everyday concerns fade and power dynamics become vividly tangible.



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