Positive

Positive words and phrases are specific terms, titles, or expressions that you enjoy hearing during BDSM scenes. These might include pet names, honorifics, compliments, or descriptive language that enhances your experience and helps you connect more deeply with your role and partner(s).

When listing positive words, consider including terms that make you feel good about yourself, reinforce your desired dynamic, or intensify the psychological aspects of your play. These might be praise-oriented ("good girl/boy"), role-specific terms ("master," "pet," "sir"), or descriptive language that aligns with your self-image. Sharing these preferences helps partners use language that will positively contribute to your experience and avoid generic terms that might not resonate with you.

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This is a description of an activity in the BDSM checklist (also known as a 'kink list'). Want to discover what (more) kinks you might have? Maybe share them with a partner? Start the checklist!