Subcategory: Worship
Cock
Cock worship involves focused adoration of the penis through enthusiastic oral attention, kissing, caressing, and/or verbal praise. The submissive demonstrates reverence by treating their partner's genitals as objects of devotion rather than merely tools for pleasure.
Many enjoy this practice for its intense focus on a body part often central to masculine sexuality. For the worshipper, the act can create satisfaction through providing pleasure while demonstrating submission. For the recipient, the dedicated attention combined with the psychological aspects of being revered creates both physical pleasure and reinforcement of their dominant position.
This is a description of an activity in the BDSM checklist (also known as a 'kink list'). Want to discover what (more) kinks you might have? Maybe share them with a partner? Start the checklist!
About the category D/s, Power Play
Dominance and submission (D/s) and power play revolve around the consensual exchange of control between partners. This dynamic can manifest in countless ways—from bedroom-only scenarios to comprehensive lifestyle arrangements—all centered on one partner taking a controlling role while the other yields authority within negotiated boundaries.
People are drawn to power exchange for diverse reasons: the freedom found in surrender, the thrill of exercising control, the deep trust required, and the opportunity to explore aspects of themselves not expressed in everyday life. Unlike physical BDSM activities which focus on bodily sensations, D/s emphasizes psychological connection and the erotic potential of power differentials, creating experiences that many find deeply fulfilling on both emotional and sexual levels.
About the subcategory Worship
Worship in BDSM contexts involves focused adoration and reverence of specific body parts or the entire person. This can include kissing, massaging, praising, or otherwise demonstrating extreme devotion to feet, genitals, or other areas the dominant partner designates as worthy of special attention.
People enjoy worship activities for their intensity of focus and the explicit power differential they create. For the worshipper, there's often pleasure in demonstrating devotion through physical acts that center entirely on another's pleasure. For the worshipped, the experience of being treated with reverence creates feelings of power and appreciation that many find deeply satisfying as expressions of their dominant role.
All activities in the checklist:
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General
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To start with
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Sex & Intimacy
- Kissing mouth (on lips)
- French kissing (with tongue)
- Kissing on body
- Massage
- Petting / Stroking Hair
- Dirty Talk
- Teasing
- Genital Stroking / Rubbing
- Fingering / Hand-jobs
- Oral Sex
- Licking (body)
- Vaginal Toys
- Vaginal Sex
- Anal Toys
- Rimming / Anal Licking
- Prostrate stimulation
- Anal Sex
- Deepthroating
- Squirting
- Breast Sex
- Tantric sex
- Phone sex
- Outdoor sex
- Sexual Body Fluids – on body
- Sexual Body Fluids – Consuming
- Double Penetration – Toys
- Double Penetration – Human
- Triple Penetration – Toys
- Fisting vaginal
- Fisting anal
- Spitting – on body
- Spitting - In mouth
- Threesome - M, M, F
- Threesome - F, F, M
- Threesome - All same gender
- Pegging
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Duration
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- Blindfolds
- Earplugs / Ear-muffs
- Masks
- Belts / Leather Straps
- Chains
- Collars
- Posture Collars
- Stocks/pillory
- Spreader Bars
- Locks
- Hoods
- Gas Masks
- Body Bags / Sleepsacks
- Vacuum Beds
- Chastity Belts / Devices
- Harnesses
- Plastic (Saran) Wrap
- Bandage / Medical Wrap
- Casts
- Single Armbinder
- Bondage Opera Gloves
- Cockrings
- Slings
- Leashes
- Straight Jackets
- Cages / Cells
- Nose Leashes
- Nose Hooks
- Tape Bondage
- Sex Machines – Handheld
- Sex Machines – Stationary
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Areas
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- Nipple Clamps – Adjustable
- Nipple Clamps – Clover
- Nipple Weights
- Canes
- Paddles
- Slappers / Straps
- Crops
- Floggers
- Single Tail Whips
- Cat-O-Nine-Tails
- Dragon Tails
- Clubs
- Violet Wands
- E-Stim Kits
- Labia Clamps
- Genital Weights
- Ball Crushers
- Scrotum Parachutes / Stretchers
- Anal Beads / Balls
- Anal Hook
- Vaginal Hook
- Animal Tail Anal Plugs
- Speculums
- Urethral Sounds
- Bells
- Strap-On Harnesses
- Feathers / Ticklers
- Claws
- Needles
- Wax
- Knives
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- Master/Mistress/slave
- Bedroom Only Control
- Day to Day Control
- 24 Hours a Day/7 Days a Week
- Total Power Exchange
- Consensual Non-Consent (CNC)
- Orders
- Chastity
- Kneeling
- Marking
- Begging
- Crawling
- Erotic Dance (Private)
- Erotic Dance (Audience)
- Journal / Blogging Duty
- Body Pose / Position Protocol
- Behavior Restriction
- Eye Contact Restriction
- Sensory deprivation
- Speech Restriction / Protocol
- Harems (serving with others)
- Serving others
- Symbolic Jewellery
- Collar and Leash
- Collar (public)
- Collar (semi-private / events)
- Collar (private)
- Mono/Poly Arrangement
- Obedience
- Honorifics
- Protocols
- Protocols (High)
- Punishment Dynamic
- Reprimands
- Discipline
- Ritual
- Rules
- Training
- Discreet Public Play (less obvious to others)
- Forced Bi-Sexuality
- Being a sex slave
- Slave Positions
- Slave Auctions
- Loaned to Others for Service
- Loaned to Others for Sex
- Being prostituted
- Tattoo/Branding as Sign of Ownership
- Micromanaging
- Micromanaging (Clothing)
- Micromanaging (Food)
- Struggling / Resistance
- Escaping Bondage
- Playing together with other subs
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- Anal Plugs (Public, Under Clothes)
- Face Sitting
- Bathroom Use Control
- Chamber-pot use
- Serving as Toilet
- Genuflecting
- Cuckold Scenes
- Public Humiliation
- Bimbofication
- Blackmail
- Cum Eating
- Emasculation
- Forced Bedwetting
- Forced Nudity
- Forced Masturbation
- Forced Orgasms
- Forced Pants Wetting
- Forced Crossdressing
- Enemas
- Burping
- Poses (Exposure, Embarrassing, etc)
- Animal Play (pet, dog, horse, etc)
- Insults
- Sexual Inadequacy Humiliation
- Removal of Privacy
- Sexual (performance) Humiliation
- Slutty Clothing (Private)
- Slutty Clothing (Public)
- Slut Training
- Small Penis Humiliation
- Verbal Humiliation (Private)
- Verbal Humiliation (Public)
- Watching Bathroom Activities
- Standing in corner
- Sleeping Conditions Chosen
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- Hair Pulling
- Spanking
- Gagging
- Face Slapping
- Biting
- Nipple Torture
- Breast torture w/pins-clips, etc.
- Breast whipping
- Pussy/cunt slapping / whipping
- Genital Torture
- Punching / Beating
- Bruising
- Scratching
- Pinching
- Breath Play
- Choking – Windpipe
- Choking – Arterial
- Smothering
- Water Torture
- Trampling
- Fire Play
- Bastinado (feet torture)
- Abrasion
- Piercing
- Knife Play (non-cutting)
- Cutting
- Electric Play
- Ice / Cold Play
- Hot Wax Play
- Tickling
- Wrestling
- Dilation – Vaginal
- Dilation – Anal
- Verbal Abuse
- Branding
- Tattooing
- Enemas
- Gagging (fingers or similar means)
- Gagging During Oral
- Cupping / Suction
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- Boss / Secretary - (Employee)
- Teacher / Student
- Damsel In Distress
- Kidnapping
- Doctor - Nurse / Patient
- Parent / Child (Ex: Daddy / Daughter)
- Interrogation
- Age Regression
- Adult Baby
- Prison Scenes
- Serving as Maid
- Prostitution / Given Away
- Initiation / Ritual
- Punishment Scenes
- Religious Scenes
- Vampire Scenes
- Rape Scenes
- Puppy Play
- Cat Play
- Pony Play
- Furries
- Cosplay
- Living Doll
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- Leather
- Latex / Rubber
- PVC
- Lingerie
- Feet
- Shoes
- Heels
- Boots
- Gloves
- Smoking
- Oral Fixation
- Uniforms
- Voyeurism
- Watching videos of others
- Corsets
- Medical
- Cross Dressing
- Forced Feminization
- Strap-On Play
- Lolita
- Mature
- Fur
- Lactation
- Food Play
- Menstruation
- Being Recorded
- Exhibitionism
- Fear / Threatening Play
- Crying / Being Brought to Tears
- Abandonment
- Acrotomophilia (amputees)
- Barosmia (smells)
- Shaving
- Shibari
- Erotic Dancing
- Body Modification
- BodyBuilding
- Bukake
- Bestiality
- Examinations (physical)
- Examinations (with instruments)
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- Age Play (Sexual)
- Animal Role Play (Sexual)
- Asphyxiation
- Ball Busting
- Bare-backing
- Blackmail Fantasy
- Blood Play
- Branding
- Breath Control
- Breeding Fantasy
- Castration Fantasy
- Catheters
- CBT (Cock & Ball Torture)
- Choking
- Conditioning (Manipulation)
- Corporal "Punishment"
- Cunt Busting
- Enemas (Cleansing)
- Enemas (Pleasure)
- Enemas (Punishment)
- Enemas (Retention)
- Fear Play
- Fire Play
- Flesh Hook Suspension
- Full Body Beatings
- Gang Bang
- Gas Masks (Air Restriction)
- Genitorture
- Gun Play
- Golden Showers
- Hypnosis
- Inflation/Injections (Saline)
- Interrogations
- Knife Play
- Mind Fucks
- Needle Play
- Ravishment Play (Rape Play)
- Ravishment Play (Group)
- Pursuit & Capture (Public)
- Pursuit & Capture (Kink Camping or Similar)
- Play Piercing
- Pussy Torture
- Resistance Play
- Rough Body Play (Closed Fists)
- Rough Body Play (Kicking)
- Scat
- Sleep Deprivation
- Stress Positions
- Take Down Play
- Tasers/Stun Guns
- Urethral Sounding
- Urine Consumption
- Waterboarding
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Recordings
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About you
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Relevant play info
- Sexual orientation
- Do you use anti-conception? If so which?
- What are your 'safer sex' barrier preferences? (condoms, gloves, etc)
- Do you have any STD's or other infectious/transferable diseases at the moment?
- Date & type of last STD test
- Any relevant medical conditions?
- Any physical or mental limitations?
- Phobias or fears:
- Diet preferences
- Favorite during session / aftercare snacks :)
- Safe Word (verbal)
- Safe Sign (non-verbal)
- Penetration ok
- No hit zone(s), if any
- Marks and bruises ok?
- No marks zone(s), if any
- BDSM-test.org result-link
- FetLife profile link
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Your body
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Words & Phrases
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Context
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