Positive

Positive contexts refer to practical circumstances and arrangements that help you feel comfortable and present during intimate or BDSM activities. These conditions set the stage for more enjoyable experiences by addressing practical considerations that might otherwise become distractions.

When describing positive contexts, consider practical factors like privacy arrangements (preventing interruptions, securing doors), time management (setting aside sufficient time, avoiding rushed feelings, using timers to create structure), environmental conditions (comfortable temperature, preferred lighting, background sounds), physical preparation (personal hygiene, hunger/thirst management), and space organization (clean area, easy access to supplies, comfortable surfaces). Being specific about these practical needs helps create experiences where you can focus on connection and sensation rather than worrying about external factors.

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This is a description of an activity in the BDSM checklist (also known as a 'kink list'). Want to discover what (more) kinks you might have? Maybe share them with a partner? Start the checklist!