Category: Role Play
Subcategory: Types

Kidnapping

Kidnapping role play involves scenarios where one partner "abducts" another who consensually pretends to be unwilling. Participants may incorporate elements such as capture, restraint, interrogation, ransom demands, escape attempts, or Stockholm syndrome dynamics. This type of role play requires thorough negotiation, clear boundaries, and established safewords due to its intense psychological elements.


This is a description of an activity in the BDSM checklist (also known as a 'kink list'). Want to discover what (more) kinks you might have? Maybe share them with a partner? Start the checklist!

About the category Role Play

Role play involves temporarily adopting alternative personas, scenarios, or dynamics that differ from participants' everyday identities. This can range from light character play to elaborate scenarios with costumes, settings, and developed storylines—all within consensual boundaries that allow for exploration of fantasies that might otherwise remain unexpressed.

People enjoy role play for its ability to create psychological distance that enables exploration of desires that might feel too vulnerable directly. Taking on roles allows for experiencing different power dynamics, taboo scenarios, or personal qualities in a contained, consensual context. Many find that the combination of imagination, performance, and erotic focus creates unique opportunities for connection and self-discovery while adding variety and creativity to their intimate experiences.




All activities in the checklist: