Category: About you
Subcategory: Relevant play info

Penetration ok

Penetration preferences indicate which forms of bodily penetration you're comfortable with during BDSM play. Being clear about these boundaries helps establish consent and guides the direction of intimate activities that might occur during or alongside kink interactions.

Consider your comfort level with each type of penetration:

  • Oral: penetration involving the mouth (receiving oral sex, performing oral sex, etc.)
  • Vaginal: penetration of the vagina with fingers, toys, genitals, or other objects
  • Anal: penetration of the anus with fingers, toys, genitals, or other objects

You can signify preferences for specific activities/tools/type of penetration in detail later.


This is a description of an activity in the BDSM checklist (also known as a 'kink list'). Want to discover what (more) kinks you might have? Maybe share them with a partner? Start the checklist!




All activities in the checklist: