Category: General
Subcategory: To start with

BDSM experience level (1-10)

This rating scale helps you indicate your level of experience with BDSM activities on a scale from 1 to 10.

What it means:

  • 1: Complete beginner, no practical experience
  • 3-4: Some limited experience
  • 5-6: Moderate experience
  • 8-9: Very experienced
  • 10: Expert level experience/professional

This rating is subjective and personal - there's no "correct" answer. It's helpful for understanding your own journey and communicating with potential partners about your comfort level with various activities.

Remember that experience doesn't necessarily mean competence, and even experienced practitioners continuously learn and improve their skills.


This is a description of an activity in the BDSM checklist (also known as a 'kink list'). Want to discover what (more) kinks you might have? Maybe share them with a partner? Start the checklist!




All activities in the checklist: