Category: General
Subcategory: Sex & Intimacy

Petting / Stroking Hair

Petting and stroking hair involves running fingers through or gently caressing a partner's hair. This seemingly simple act can be deeply intimate and soothing, activating nerve endings in the scalp that can create pleasurable sensations.

This touch can be tender and affectionate or incorporate gentle tugging that borders on hair pulling. Many find this action calming when gentle, or arousing when more assertive. It's often incorporated into aftercare or as a way to build connection during other intimate activities.


This is a description of an activity in the BDSM checklist (also known as a 'kink list'). Want to discover what (more) kinks you might have? Maybe share them with a partner? Start the checklist!




All activities in the checklist: