Category: D/s, Power Play
Subcategory: Power exchange / Protocol

Forced Bi-Sexuality

Forced Bi-Sexuality refers to a consensual role-play scenario where a dominant "forces" a submissive to engage in bisexual activities that they have actually pre-negotiated and consented to. The submissive may act reluctant or resistant as part of the scene, but has agreed to the activities (potentially happening) beforehand.

The appeal centers on the power dynamic of being "made" to do something supposedly outside one's comfort zone. For submissives who enjoy this play, the scenario creates a psychological space where they can explore bisexual desires while maintaining the narrative that they were "commanded" to do so. This can reduce feelings of responsibility or guilt for those still reconciling with their sexuality. Dominants enjoy the apparent control over their partner's sexual boundaries and witnessing their submission taken to new levels. This activity absolutely requires thorough prior negotiation, clear boundaries, and established safewords.

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About the category D/s, Power Play

Dominance and submission (D/s) and power play revolve around the consensual exchange of control between partners. This dynamic can manifest in countless ways—from bedroom-only scenarios to comprehensive lifestyle arrangements—all centered on one partner taking a controlling role while the other yields authority within negotiated boundaries.

People are drawn to power exchange for diverse reasons: the freedom found in surrender, the thrill of exercising control, the deep trust required, and the opportunity to explore aspects of themselves not expressed in everyday life. Unlike physical BDSM activities which focus on bodily sensations, D/s emphasizes psychological connection and the erotic potential of power differentials, creating experiences that many find deeply fulfilling on both emotional and sexual levels.

About the subcategory Power exchange / Protocol

Power exchange protocols establish formalized patterns of behavior between partners that reinforce and express their D/s dynamic. These may include specific language requirements, postures, rituals, or rules that symbolize and maintain the consensual power differential between participants.

People engage in protocols for the structure and clarity they bring to power exchange relationships. These practices create consistent reminders of roles, deepen the psychological aspects of submission and dominance, and provide a framework for expressing devotion and control. For many practitioners, the mindfulness required to maintain protocols creates a meditative focus that enhances connection and satisfaction beyond what more casual power dynamics might offer.



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