Frequently Asked Questions


I don't know exactly when a specific activity is 'giving' and when 'receiving'

This can be unclear in some scenario's. It is hard to make a general rule that always works. A good way to think about it is swapping Giving for Topping and Receinig for Bottoming

I recommend just adding a comment if you're not sure and/or you think it is very important to be cristal clear.

I see the same activity in multiple categories

Yes, that can be the case. Some activities can be very different depending on the context. Kneeling in devotion is very different then kneeling in a humiliation context for expample.

Can I share a list before I'm done?

Yes you can! This way the person/people you share with can watch along while you're filling it. Can be nice to feel watched ;-)

Can I share a list with more than one person?

Yes you can! You can either share one link with several people. Or create a seperate link for each. The benefit of the latter is that you can withdraw the share for each person individually if you want to.

Who/what's behind BDSMchecklist.com

Just someone who wanted to make a perfect checklist for his own use. I tried lots of existing ones. Never was satisfied. So I started building/combining to create my own.
First as word docs, then as google spreadsheets. Making them better bit by bit with the feedback I got.
They became so detailed and popuplar that I decided to make a web app out of it. So here we are!

I have another question

Tel us! I love your feedback